Tuesday, December 16, 2014

How We View Life

I am still here and God is given all the praise.  No matter what amount of medicine can keep me unless it is the will of God.  It makes you view life in a different way.  You try to live the right way everyday.  We all know that death does not give us a time it just comes.  I want to make sure that I do all that I can do.  We don't have to be well known in order to make a difference.  We just have to be willing to address wrong when we see it.  Strong enough to stand for what is right.
             Now for as long as time began man has been the ruler of many things.  There was a time when women had no rights and man could do whatever he wanted to her.  Then as time passed things began to change.  The way women were treated mattered.  What they thought and how they felt.  If a man left a woman, he could leave the children as well.  He did not have to be responsible to help take care of them.  Thank God for change.  That is no longer the case, but with that also came disappointment.  The way and the treatment of a woman was and in some cases wrong, but the wrong treatment of a man is just as bad.
          A friend who is a  father of a beautiful little girl had to appear in court.  Not because he was or is a deadbeat dad.  The mother of the child allowed another man to come into her life and feed the hatred that she had for this man.  She filed for child support, with a lawyer.  The both of them lawyer and client standing before the judge lying.  The sad part about that was he had all documents and bank statements to show that he had always been there and done for his daughter.  The judge being a woman, told him that it was about the money.  Again where was the integrity.  If it was wrong for men to do these things and more to women, then how is it justifiable for women.  How is it okay for you to turn into the very thing that you say you dislike.  There is no justice in what those three women did.
          They are no better than those men in time pass.  This woman at one time said that she loved this man.  What manner of love was it?  Not the kind that keeps you from doing wrong.  Not the kind that should keep you from hurting someone with a lie.  Definitively, not the kind of love that God demonstrates.  If God  delivers use from wrong doing, what is the point.  If we turn around and do the same injustice that was done to us.  If we can not stand and allow those who are wrong see the righteousness of God in us then, change will not matter.  Why ask for something that we are not willing or incapable  of doing.  Things just should remain the same.  We have to become the difference.  The change begins within us.